Bored and Downtrodden Clarification

The wrong people read and understood my post about feeling blah blah girly neglected from last minute plan cancellations. It was more of a general complaint as it had happened with eight friends within a span of about a week. Also it had to do with Michi who has pretty much been doing this to me for three months. I've talked to her about it but there doesn't seem to be much progress in that area.

What happens is I'll ask if she wants to go out for dinner or something else mundane and coupley and say a precise date and time and then I'll always ask if she thinks she'll be too busy with work and if so it's cool with me, just tell me so and we'll do something else another day. She always says that she'll be able to make it. Even lately when I quiz her with a few are you sure and are you really sure in a skeptical way. I do this because honestly it's like I said before I much rather be told no and be "rejected" in a straight forward blunt matter than to be told that yes, she does have time to hang out and then receive a call an hour before saying that she was wrong and she has to finish more work. I mean, I know stuff comes up but all of the time this happens. Shouldn't some of this stuff be predictable when I try to make plans for us earlier in the week?

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